Set boundaries that ACTUALLY work and stop the outbursts before they even begin

(even if your child forgets everything two minutes after you discuss it, you've tried everything before, and you're way past burnout yourself!)

THE PROBLEM

Whenever you try to set boundaries with your child, you get a blank stare, or maybe a nod, before they immediately forget what you talked about and go right back to doing the same thing…

Or your child is superb at finding loopholes… They constantly negotiate everything, and you end up in a “is not” / “is too” kind of debate...

Maybe you don't know to respond to behaviors when it isn't really in your child’s control because they don't understand the boundary, they struggle with impulse control, don't understand personal space, etc.

I mean, how can we discipline them when it isn’t their fault?

On the other hand, how will our kids learn that their actions have very real consequences in the real world, even if those actions aren’t their fault if we don’t discipline them now? It's a lose-lose situation.

And i'm here to change that.

Instead, CAn You Imagine…

Your neurodivergent child doing what you ask them to do, or even just cooperating a little, without the big fight, endless negotiations, or resorting to threatening tech time.

Setting basic boundaries for your family that actually work and that your neurodivergent child will actually follow, plus knowing exactly how to handle behavior when your child struggles to follow those boundaries.

No more walking on eggshells and bending over backwards to avoid a meltdown or outburst from your neurodivergent child, and actually parenting your child again.

Imagine focusing on raising your child to be a good human instead of just avoiding the next battle.

But It’s not that easy.

There are so many questions when it comes to setting and sticking to boundaries with neurodivergent kids...

Does your child even understand the boundaries you're trying to set? Do they remember them in the moment?

What behavior is caused by your child’s neurodivergence and what is just a child misbehaving? In other words—what behavior should be left alone and what should be corrected?

Are you even allowed to change your child’s behavior, or does that make you ableist?

If you stick to a boundary, are you going to push your child into a meltdown? What if they hurt themselves?

If you don't stick to any boundaries, are they going to ever learn that actions have consequences?

How can you find the energy to stick to boundaries when it feels so much easier to give in and avoid the battle?

Imagine having solid boundaries in place for your neurofamily ...without constantly battling your child, pushing them into a meltdown, or resorting to threats...

Here’s a Glimpse Into Your Future…

Sibling boundaries

Your child knows that when a sibling says no, that means no, and they actually accept that and do something else instead of punching them in the face.

personal boundaries

Your child understands that sometimes you can't stop what you're doing to immediately do what they want, and they have a plan for when they have to wait that they actually follow.

Family Boundaries

Your child does their school work, does what you ask, and even helps out with basic chores without a massive battle—and you're done with the overwhelming burnout.

Not only is all of this possible, I’ve created the solution to get you there faster, easier,
and without throwing out all of your child's accommodations.

Introducing Boundaries Blueprint

Your step-by-step blueprint to create and stick to effective boundaries with your neurodivergent kids!

Build a Solid Foundation

  • Discover the two types of parents (and how your parent-type impacts how you navigate boundaries)

  • Acknowledge your own experiences with boundaries with a simple 3-step process

  • Find out how to find and shift disempowering thoughts without toxic positivity bull shirt

Create Effective Boundaries

  • Understand the 3 Rules of Effective Boundaries so that you set boundaries that your neurodivergent children can (and do) actually follow the boundaries that you set

  • Discover the 3 boundaries *every* family must have, and how to customize them for your child’s current developmental level and abilities

  • Let go of “should” boundaries that society expects and set boundaries that are unique to your family so that every boundary you spend energy on actually matters to you and your family

Develop a Unique Boundary Plan

  • Find out how to effectively communicate boundaries so that your neurodivergent child can fully understand them even if they have a receptive language delay and they seem to forget everything you say two minutes after you say it

  • Create solid plans to manage your child’s capacity to follow each boundary so that they *can* meet the expectation even when they’re tired, hungry, overwhelmed, or downright cranky.

Handle Difficult Behavior

  • The difference between consequences and results, and how they fit into your plan for handling difficult behavior

  • Exactly what to do in the moment when your child is mid-meltdown to keep everyone safe (including, your child, their siblings, and yourself) and get through the meltdown as quickly as possible

  • How to balance the fact that all behavior is communication with making sure that your kids learn that some behaviors simply aren’t okay.

Prevent Behavior Struggles

  • Discover the two types of parents (and how your parent-type impacts how you navigate boundaries)

  • Acknowledge your own experiences with boundaries with a simple 3-step process

  • Find out how to find and shift disempowering thoughts without toxic positivity bull shirt

Plus, Get Access to These Bonuses…

Demand-FRee Boundaries Guide

Whether your child has a PDA-profile or they just struggle with demand-avoidance, this guide will walk you through exactly how to navigate boundaries without triggering your child and ending up in a power struggle.

Confidence Boosting Bundle

How to easily and confidently communicate to others—like grandparents, babysitters, and teachers—that there are real and thoughtful reasons why you respond to behavior and set boundaries the way you do so that you can stop feeling so isolated and judged.

Personal Boundaries 101

Most of us have spent months (or years) letting go of every single one of our boundaries or were never really taught to have healthy boundaries in the first place. Boundaries 101 will help you identify and stick to your own personal boundaries even if you’ve ignored them for years.

get started with boundaries blueprint

  • Build a Solid Foundation (Valued at $199)

  • Create Effective Boundaries (Valued at $199)

  • Develop a Boundary Plan (Valued at $199)

  • Handle Difficult Behaviors (Valued at $199)

SAVE $100!

Flexible Payments

$75/Month

6-Month Payment Plan

  • Prevent Behavior Struggles (Valued at $199)

  • Confidence Boosting Bundle (Valued at $147)

  • Demand-Free Boundaries Guide (Valued at $97)

  • 3 Months in Neurofamily Collective (Valued at $75)

Pay In Full

$350

One-Time Payment

Don’t go it alone

Get 3 months access to the neurofamily collective — the only community made up of parents who are committed to building neurofamilies that work.

"I am happy to say he was sleeping by 10:00pm!"

Yesterday after the timer went off he gave me the iPad and said “Ok. Turn off iPad, Mami.” 😳

He asked for his favorite song, and after putting it on it only took 10 mins and he was off to dreamland 🥳

Illems Velazquez | Mom of 2 Year Old

"To say that you changed our lives would be an understatement."

We adjusted to a sleep schedule with J that honors everyone's sleep needs and have set a firm boundary around sleep in our bed. We're all really happy with where we're at sleep-wise.

Thank you so much for helping us communicate our sleep needs with J while honoring his sleep needs too, and for helping us to set boundaries!

Shannon Clay | Mom of 8-Year-Old Twins

There has never been a better time to create 
effective boundaries for your unique neurofamily.

the time is now

If you’re ready to take some big moves and make a real difference for your unique neurofamily, I’m holding out my hand waiting for you to grab on.

By the time you finish Boundaries Blueprint, here are just a few things you'll have (yeah, this will be your new normal):

  • Unique Family Boundaries

  • Effective Boundary Plans

  • Doable Behavior Plans

  • Kids Following Boundaries

If you wait, you’ll be in the same place you are now. And trust me, friend, 6 months from now, you’ll wish you had started today!

get started with boundaries blueprint

  • Build a Solid Foundation (Valued at $199)

  • Create Effective Boundaries (Valued at $199)

  • Develop a Boundary Plan (Valued at $199)

  • Handle Difficult Behaviors (Valued at $199)

SAVE $100!

Flexible Payments

$75/Month

6-Month Payment Plan

  • Prevent Behavior Struggles (Valued at $199)

  • Confidence Boosting Bundle (Valued at $147)

  • Demand-Free Boundaries Guide (Valued at $97)

  • 3 Months in Neurofamily Collective (Valued at $75)

Pay In Full

$350

One-Time Payment

Is Boundaries Blueprint right for you?

I'll be honest, Boundaries Blueprint is not right for everyone, so let's take a look and see if this course is your right next step...

YOU ARE A GREAT FIT FOR BOUNDARIES BLUEPRINT IF:

  • You're raising a neurodivergent child (Autistic / ADHD / Anxiety / DMDD / OCD / etc.) and/or identify with neurodivergent parenting styles.

  • You've struggled with setting and sticking to boundaries with your kids, and you're ready to finally figure out a system that actually works for your unique (read: weird!) family.

  • You've been backing off and accommodating for so long that you're fried and you just have nothing left to give, so you need SOME balance before you break.

  • You're constantly second-guessing yourself—not sure if your child's behavior is in their control of because of their neurodivergence or how you should respond.

  • You find yourself swinging wildly between "consistent" boundaries and being "flexible" and accommodating because neither strategy works 100% of the time. 

Too-Good-To-be-true money-back guarantee

I know that you’ve probably tried all the books, courses, and trainings out there before, and this might sound too good to be true.

That’s why I’m offering my “too good to be true” 14-day money-back guarantee.

Simply send me an email at kaylene@AutisticMama.com and show me that you completed the first two modules within the first 14 days, and I will personally refund your money *and* give you a 1:1 coaching call.

No matter what, you will have a plan to move forward and handle boundaries with your neurodivergent child!

My clients say things like…

My Most Successful Students
Ask Questions Like...

  • If you're like my most successful students, you've probably tried a TON of things before. (I know I sure did!)

    And here's the deal: those books, courses, and programs can be GREAT! But a lot of the time they aren't very realistic...

    And when I can't get through a parenting book or course without feeling guilty AF (and I'm a parent coach) I know there's a huge problem.

    So Boundaries Blueprint makes sure that we embrace parent humanity every step of the way.

    I'm known for "keeping it real" and making the process as easy as possible for neurofamilies like ours.

  • You are 100% welcome, even if you don't have a diagnosed neurodivergent child!

    Here's the truth: If you try to implement "normal" parenting strategies with a neurodivergent child, it'll be an epic failure, but if you use neurodivergent-friendly strategies with neurotypical kids it will work out just fine.

    That being said, this course will assume you have a neurodivergent child, so you'll just have to ignore when I say "neurodivergent" and take what applies to you. :)

    I work with parents in my program that have kids who have all sorts of neurodivergencies (and even neurotypical children) so these strategies will work for you, especially since I focus on finding your unique "flavor" of parenting. :)

  • 100% Yes! I’m Autistic and epileptic, plus I have fibromyalgia, chronic migraines, and debilitating anxiety.

    Every single strategy I’m teaching in Boundaries Blueprint was specifically designed to work parents like me, who have their own needs.

    The reality is, I believe that we all have unique neurofamilies with different blends of neurodivergencies, disabilities, strengths, struggles, and quirks. My approach is to empower you to find your specific "flavor" of strategies that works for your unique neurofamily.

  • You and I both, friend! Here's the truth: life just isn't consistent.

    So if you've been beating yourself up for not staying consistent, here's your permission to stop! 

    In Boundaries Blueprint, I'll show you exactly how to navigate boundaries without needing superhuman abilities to always stay consistent.

  • Parenting when you and your partner aren't on the same page isn't always easy.

    Both of you are trying your best to raise your kids to be good humans, and you both are convinced that your way is the best way to do that.

    The good news is that Boundaries Blueprint isn't going to ask you (or your partner) to throw your current parenting strategies out in favor of mine. 

    Instead, this course will help you to develop boundaries that work for you and your partner, as well as your neurodivergent kids.

    Also, if you happen to have a partner who won't budge even an inch and thinks this whole thing is nonsense, you can implement the strategies in Boundaries Blueprint on your own before your partner is ready to compromise.

  • Boundaries Blueprint is a self-study course, not a coaching program, for a few specific reasons.

    #1 The entire Boundaries Blueprint program is designed to help you create effective boundaries and implement them in your neurofamily in your own unique way. It isn't about how I would do something, it's about how it works for you!

    #2 My group coaching programs start at $3500+, and courses like Boundaries Blueprint are the best way to get access to my brain and process for the most accessible investment possible!

    #3 You get 3 months access to the Neurofamily Collective, so you can ask questions and get support while you move through the course! This way you get the best of both worlds.

get started with boundaries blueprint

  • Build a Solid Foundation (Valued at $199)

  • Create Effective Boundaries (Valued at $199)

  • Develop a Boundary Plan (Valued at $199)

  • Handle Difficult Behaviors (Valued at $199)

SAVE $100!

Flexible Payments

$75/Month

6-Month Payment Plan

  • Prevent Behavior Struggles (Valued at $199)

  • Confidence Boosting Bundle (Valued at $147)

  • Demand-Free Boundaries Guide (Valued at $97)

  • 3 Months in Neurofamily Collective (Valued at $75)

Pay In Full

$350

One-Time Payment